Sunday, August 10, 2008

P don't preach!

It would be easy to locate Chetan Bhagat’s speech for the BBA students in symbiosis. If you catch it somewhere, do read it. Just a few days back I and the significant other were discussing a lot of these famous speeches which were so much better when u read it, and a complete turn off when u actually heard them.

I don’t know how well he delivered it, but the document is a must read. I have always been a fan of the connect he creates with almost about everyone with his pen. He was a good story teller; he is now becoming a youth icon.

My take on the speech – Rather my take away from it, the things I believe in.

Do what you love and Monday mornings wouldn’t seem so blue. I strive to get there and there is nothing more important than that. Not even the money or the brand or the perks.

Do not value money. It’s not that hard to earn money. Value the people you love, value friendships and most importantly value health and mental peace.

Make happiness a state of being and everything else gets taken care off.

I get scared of people who are extremely serious. I mean what’s the need.

One last thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. One my yoga teachers used to make students laugh during classes. One student asked him if these jokes would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said - don't be serious, be sincere. This quote has defined my work ever since. Whether its my writing, my job, my relationships or any of my goals. I get thousands of opinions on my writing everyday. There is heaps of praise, there is intense criticism. If I take it all seriously, how will I write? Or rather, how will I live? Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.

Go fall in love. It’s risky but then you are the happiest when you are in it.
It makes the world go round and it makes you believe that anything is possible.

Lastly, as Chetan says: Keep the spark alive!

3 comments:

Ashish Surana said...

I have read that speech and all I have to say is its Easy to say but very difficult to follow, specially when 90% of people around you are serious and running after the materialistic things !!!!

I am following it and I find myself alone most of the times !!!

Thats how life goes !!!!

$lim said...

Last time someone gave slim a speech, he got shot!
-- Go fall in love. It’s risky but then you are the happiest when you are in it.
It makes the world go round and it makes you believe that anything is possible. --

Get a dog.... less risk, more love :)

Pragati said...

@ashish : I knw...life sure is tough!

@slim : when are u buying a dog? I think you need one...